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Boho-Claire
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 Posted - 21/08/2008 : 17:44:01
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ok well, heres the low-down...
at the start of summer my mate started to get weird with me... I have a good idea why but there's no point going into it... it suffices to say that something I did bothered her, and it's an issue she has, I didn't do anything wrong.
well anyway, she started acting immature, trying to make me jelous by hanging out with another girl, telling me how they were going on holiday etc. It didn't bother me that much because I understood what she was doing. THEN she started getting really malicious, for example, she went ahead and bought tickets for a concert she knew I definiatly wanted to go to with a group of our friends, which meant I couldn't go as they all already had tickets. Then she started hanging around with a group of our old friends, who she has sweetieed about A LOT to me, and who we both disliked because they'd left us out in the past. She's started going out places with them and not bothering to invite me along. In one case, she actually mentioned to me she was going out with mates, but I assumed they were friends of hers. I later found out she'd sent a text to a mutual friend inviting him out on that particular night, but yet she hadn't asked me to go and it was with all of our old friends.I left her a message over *** about it... I basically confronted her and asked her why she was doing it. We have one year of school left with each other, and I've been told that I should just ride it out for a year and then forget her, but I want to make the friendship work. Can anyone give me ay advice on how to handle this situation?? should I ditch her or should I try and get her to start acting more mature?? any advice at all would be appreciated!
This girl is deeply insecure and immature, she can also be manipulative and selfish... she's not all bad of course, but I think those traits should be taken into consideration |
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gribbs2
Starting Member
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Posted - 21/08/2008 : 18:01:31
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the same thing is happening to me it got so far that she started this thing online about me it's a long story and the police got involed and she turned all my mates agenst me but all i did was acted like i didn't care cos it's there loss and if you jst carry on and show them that it's not upsetting you to much and show them your still having fun and living your life they well soon get jelous and come bk to you
thats what i did but i didn't wnt to be friends with her agen so whne she did say she was sory i jst sed that she does it the whole time an di've got my life to live lol |
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stagbottle
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Posted - 22/08/2008 : 14:47:29
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| Just ignore her and dont let her childish behavior bother u. Try to make new friends and when she realizes that u are ignoring her she will come back to u.I did this many times with my best friend and it always works. |
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