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rokchikmusicgal
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Posted - 16/11/2008 :  13:22:33  Edit Topic  Reply with Quote  View user's IP address  Delete Topic
ok, this is kinda long, but bear with me..

my town is twinned with this town in france, and a group of them were over here last year, and there was this girl 'P' who was really nice and i got on well with her
anyway we never heard from her after that
umm, about 2 weeks ago i went over to france with dad, to the town, mum stayed at home oz she hada go to work
and we met up with 'P' and she took me shopping and stuff and she was really nice
but i noticed dad was kinda eager to ,meet up with her for diner and stuff with other people
then when we got home i noticed he'd been emailing her
like she's 21 and my dads like in his 50s so i thought right its jsut my dad being nice, coz she was so nice to me
but then like i was reading dads emails today..(lol)
and i saw all this stuff like
(from my dad)
i'll try to ring you on wednesday..
and
This e mail comes from the guy you used to call your adorable George
and
then he emialed her saying how he was sad that his friend had died and "You know i always feel better when i talk to you.There was no answer to your phone so i thought id speak to you by email" You can text me when it might be suitable to talk to you, thats if you want to of course.Bye for now from your sad buddy "


i don't know

like she live in FRANCE, and is like 30 odd years younger than him

but it's just really weird

and he always deletes her emails to him
there's never any in his inbox
(but he doesnt realise sent messages are in a sentbox so i read them)


i know i shou;dn't be snooping through his emails either..

i jsut don't know what to think...



**read my comments at the end***
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I can feel it -- the turn of the Earth. The ground beneath our feet is spinning at a thousand miles an hour, the entire planet is hurtling around the Sun at sixty-seven thousand miles an hour, and I can feel it. We're falling through space, you and me. Clinging to the skin of this tiny little world, and if we let go... Now forget me... Go home...

Edited by - rokchikmusicgal on 24/11/2008 21:15:03

Dimples;
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Posted - 16/11/2008 :  14:13:20  Edit Reply  Reply with Quote  View user's IP address  Delete Reply
Hmmm, i can totally see why your wondering. But like..at the end of the e-mail it said "from your sad buddy", if something was going on would it not be more affectionate?
Are your mum and dad still close as ever? or have things changed since those trips to france?
Could be that they have just devoloped a good friendship (:
xxx
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BaybeeGurl1992
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Posted - 16/11/2008 :  15:36:13  Edit Reply  Reply with Quote  View user's IP address  Delete Reply
It doesn't really seem like he's having an affair. Maybe he just really likes her as a friend, and there's nothing wrong with that. But I don't see why he's deleting his emails. Maybe ask him if he's heard off 'P' recently and see how he reacts. But I don't think you got anything to worry about.
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rokchikmusicgal
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Posted - 16/11/2008 :  20:09:49  Edit Reply  Reply with Quote  View user's IP address  Delete Reply
thank you!
yeah, i think im over reacting a bit
thers no change between mum and dad, maybe he's jsut trying to flirt to prove he still can.. he's getting on a bit
lmao

i will ask him about it!!

I can feel it -- the turn of the Earth. The ground beneath our feet is spinning at a thousand miles an hour, the entire planet is hurtling around the Sun at sixty-seven thousand miles an hour, and I can feel it. We're falling through space, you and me. Clinging to the skin of this tiny little world, and if we let go... Now forget me... Go home...
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Dimples;
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Posted - 16/11/2008 :  22:05:56  Edit Reply  Reply with Quote  View user's IP address  Delete Reply
lmao yeah! maybe just a midlife crisis to see if he's still got it ;] haha.
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rokchikmusicgal
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Posted - 16/11/2008 :  22:33:09  Edit Reply  Reply with Quote  View user's IP address  Delete Reply
as long as he doesnt grow his hair long, and join a motor bike club, it's all good
lamo

I can feel it -- the turn of the Earth. The ground beneath our feet is spinning at a thousand miles an hour, the entire planet is hurtling around the Sun at sixty-seven thousand miles an hour, and I can feel it. We're falling through space, you and me. Clinging to the skin of this tiny little world, and if we let go... Now forget me... Go home...
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Dimples;
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Posted - 16/11/2008 :  22:35:34  Edit Reply  Reply with Quote  View user's IP address  Delete Reply
lmfaooo, better watch out :P
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rokchikmusicgal
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Posted - 23/11/2008 :  18:18:16  Edit Reply  Reply with Quote  View user's IP address  Delete Reply
ahhhh

ok i was reading my dads emails again

and recently there's not been any emails frm P so i thot phew


BUT

today i saw this...


i wanted to answer you because i still feel like you call me too much and this is not right and you scare me a bit sometime when you say things like 'something spécial between us' I thought it was clear you asked me to forgive you and i did but you still talk about it! Im ok to still émail you sometime but you should slow down.Hope i dont sound mean cuz thats not what iam and what i want! You embarass me when you talk about that night ,when you say too many nice things to meHope everything is fineIm not mad at you or anything but im just clearing things..See ya P


ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!

and that was in reply to...

Glad to hear nothing is wrong.I wanted to talk to you about that night in p-r because I still think there is some misunderstanding between us and I was concerned that it has caused a rift in our being friends so I need a few minutes to discuss it with you sometime.I just have a feeling something is not right and I dont want us to fall out over a misunderstanding and thats why I have been trying so often to phone you.As I said before I liked you very much from the first time I met you and even though there is a big age difference I always felt something special between us so I wouldnt want anything to spoil that. I wont say anymore otherwise I will have tears in my eyes.I shall leave it to you to speak to me when and if you want to.I will always treasure the times we had together.Bye for now.Hoping to hear from you soon.


O m g

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I can feel it -- the turn of the Earth. The ground beneath our feet is spinning at a thousand miles an hour, the entire planet is hurtling around the Sun at sixty-seven thousand miles an hour, and I can feel it. We're falling through space, you and me. Clinging to the skin of this tiny little world, and if we let go... Now forget me... Go home...

Edited by - rokchikmusicgal on 23/11/2008 18:30:00
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rokchikmusicgal
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Posted - 23/11/2008 :  18:30:42  Edit Reply  Reply with Quote  View user's IP address  Delete Reply
and he hasn't read the email yet

I can feel it -- the turn of the Earth. The ground beneath our feet is spinning at a thousand miles an hour, the entire planet is hurtling around the Sun at sixty-seven thousand miles an hour, and I can feel it. We're falling through space, you and me. Clinging to the skin of this tiny little world, and if we let go... Now forget me... Go home...
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