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Hi! I'm Petra Boynton.
I'm a sex researcher with over 10 years experience. My PhD is on porn (truly!), assessing the effects of sex in the media. I train health professionals to talk about sex, and advise a number of organisations like the Family Planning Association, and BBC World Service on sex coverage. I've a regular telephone sex phone in on the BBC, and write several columns on sex and relationships. |
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| Hey, I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfrend for 5 months and we wanna hav sex but are to nervous 2 say anything wat should i do? |
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| I think even though it’s scary you will have to talk about sex, just to make sure you’re both doing what you like. But first make sure you’re sorted for contraception so you don’t have to worry about getting pregnant. You can get free contraceptives from your GP, reproductive/family planning clinic or Brook www.brook.org.uk. Then you can ask him if he’d like to be more involved with you. Or you may just find that one of the times you’re enjoying kissing that things just go further and you end up having sex. Whatever happens make sure you are doing what you like, and that he’s up for it too. You don’t need to give a running commentary, but saying what feels good and asking him to share what he likes is both a turn on and a way of knowing you’re both getting what you want. |
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| emekaukwuani |
 posted - 26/06/2008 02:41:00 |
| sweetheart don't be scary be brave sex is sweet but be carefull |
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