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Hi! I'm Petra Boynton.
I'm a sex researcher with over 10 years experience. My PhD is on porn (truly!), assessing the effects of sex in the media. I train health professionals to talk about sex, and advise a number of organisations like the Family Planning Association, and BBC World Service on sex coverage. I've a regular telephone sex phone in on the BBC, and write several columns on sex and relationships. |
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| Hi Petra, please help. I like this boy and think he likes me too but I don’t know how to french kiss and I’m really nervous in case i do it wrong and he doesn’t like it. HELP!? Please help! |
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| The good news is there’s no set rules for kissing, so as long as you don’t slobber, kiss his eye by mistake or burp just as he goes to kiss you then you’ll be fine. With French kissing you don’t have to start with lots of tongue action. Instead you can kiss him gently on the lips, let him kiss you back, perhaps nibble or lick his bottom lip, and then move to push your tongue gently into his mouth – or part your lips so he can kiss you more deeply. If you do bump noses, clash teeth or it doesn’t go to plan it’s fine to laugh it off. He’s probably just as nervous as you – if not more so as we still tend to expect lads to take the lead when it comes to kissing. It’s fine to say if you’re nervous, or it may help to ask him how he likes to be kissed, that way you know you’ll be doing it right. Enjoy! |
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