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Hi! I'm Petra Boynton.
I'm a sex researcher with over 10 years experience. My PhD is on porn (truly!), assessing the effects of sex in the media. I train health professionals to talk about sex, and advise a number of organisations like the Family Planning Association, and BBC World Service on sex coverage. I've a regular telephone sex phone in on the BBC, and write several columns on sex and relationships. |
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| I lost my virginity with my boyfriend over a month ago now, and we’ve had sex a few times since then, but now all i think of is sex, sex and more sex and it worries me. am i normal? cos i think of sex twentyfourseven. help me please with some advice please? xxxxxxx |
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| Yes you are completely normal! If you’re enjoying sex it’s natural to think about it a lot. You may be someone who will always think about sex a lot, or it may be that over time you still enjoy it but think about it less as it’ll be something you’re more used to. The great news is that you’ve lost your virginity and you are thinking about sex all the time which I’m hoping means you’re really enjoying it. If so, continue to enjoy yourself, explore more pleasurable things, and use all that time you’re thinking about sex to decide what you want to try out next. Hopefully while you’ve been thinking about sex you’ve also taken some action – meaning that you’ve sorted out your contraception. If not pop along to your family planning/reproductive health clinic or nearest Brook and they can discuss your contraception options. |
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